Blue Laws- Then and Now

Seventy years ago it was a wide spread practice to ban most Sunday commerce by state statute or local ordinance. These limitations were commonly known as Blue Laws. If you needed carrots for your pot roast, you either borrowed a bunch from a neighbor or went without. Yes, neighbors looked to each other for needed resources.

Thinking back, the closing of businesses on Sunday promoted interaction among the family, friends and relatives. There were sit down Sunday dinners each week. Once the weather warmed, these meals occurred under the pear trees in the side yard. After the dishes were washed, dried and put away, families often loaded everyone in the automobile for a leisurely ride or a visit with relatives. All physical work was avoided.

I can only recall one exception to this Sunday ritual. With most husbands working a half day on Saturday, there was little opportunity for Mom and Dad to shop together. Seldom, and I mean rarely, my parents would visit the Jewish clothing merchants in the wholesale district of Cincinnati. Vividly I can see the shop owners standing in front of their businesses waiting for customers. Frankly, I cannot recall many purchases actually being made. It could have been a way to break up the typical Sunday routine.

Like wage earners, business owners maintained a five and half day schedule. Typically, stores were open from 8AM until 6PM Monday through Saturday but the front door was locked at noon on Wednesday. Some even closed an hour for lunch. Opportunities for commerce were severely limited by the owners’ choice. Gradually there were demands to modify, and eventually overturn, the Blue Law restrictions completely. What corporations gained in sales, families, including the families of proprietors, lost in solidarity. Now for carrots you drove to the IGA rather than walk next door to the neighbor.

What was once a Sunday limit to trade has morphed into volumes of regulations seven days a week- the twenty-first century version of Blue Laws. For me, it is best to continue observing the sacredness of Sunday. Before starting a project I determine whether the activity is truly recreation or work. There are distinct advantages to spending the day quieting your mind, listening for His whisper in the turmoil of society.

Fork in the Road

Isn’t there one always in life?

You come to a place in life where you need to make a choice. There is a straight, smooth paved road to the right. Usually this is the road you have taken in the past and it ended up being a mistake over and over. The last time delivered you where you are now.

It is tempting because it appears to be easy traveling. Paved with concrete, it must be the quickest way to where you want to go. But like the state turnpike system many tolls are required. In the end it is not cheap when you consider what you must give up- dignity, respect, control of your life, true friendships and family. Welfare comes in many forms, but it is its own prison- a stranger controls every aspect of your life and limits your opportunities. How often are you willing to continually pay the price?

As you stand there deciding which road to take, you see the one on the left is rough, full of potholes and rocks. The view is obstructed by a bend a short distance from where you stand. It is not appealing and looks mysterious if not downright dangerous. Obviously starting down this road will be difficult. If only you had a hot air balloon to elevate yourself and see the opportunities, choices and advantages of this lifestyle a short distance in front of you. On examination you notice each rock has a label- self-discipline, self-respect or one of the virtues. All that is needed is to fill the potholes with the rocks. For once you would be truly free to make decisions that benefit your family and you. A short-term investment in yourself will generate success, satisfaction, and self-worth. From experience you know the other road never works. Isn’t it worth making a sincere effort to try a different way?

$4.44

Among other activities in our church, I assist counting the Sunday collection every six weeks or so. This is not a leisurely task of scrutinizing or gossiping over contributions from givers. Rather, this is one of those chores that you do out of necessity- you count, you record, you deposit and you get on with the rest of Sunday. Frankly, it is unusual to give a second thought to who is giving or how much.

The plastic bag is what caught my attention. It was one of those sandwich size zip-lock types. It was opaque and wrinkled from repeated use for one purpose or another. The contents were an assortment of coins- pennies, nickels, dimes and one quarter. The contents of the bag totaled $4.44.

Several Sundays have come and gone since that day but I continue to wonder, No, not wonder but pray for the donor. The single quarter took me back a few years. My change jar was void of quarters during the period I lacked a washer and dryer. My quarters were deposited in the laundromat bank. The plastic bag communicated thoughtful convenience for the collection counters. And the sum of $4.44. Could the widow with two copper coins in Luke’s gospel be living in our parish, or is this a child being instructed in supporting the Church.

I wonder and then I recall the Letter to the Hebrews 13:2.

The Great-Niece

Recently a birth announcement arrived from Connecticut. My nephew and his wife are new parents of daughter. The accompanying photograph confirms each of us arrive as beautiful human beings with hope and unlimited potential. By age 6 or 7, she will have more knowledge of the physical world than I have acquired in seven decades.
Looking at Susan Christina Lilly’s picture triggers a few thoughts. As far as formal schooling goes, my parents had next to none. Typical for their generation, Mom and Dad educated themselves and were examples for their children and grandchildren. Maybe Dad’s collar was blue but his mind was pure gold. As a result, there are a few doctorate degrees on the family tree. I appreciate having relatives with advanced degrees; it offsets us non-achievers.
Having lived in large cities, it is easy to compare our environments. Things move slowly here if at all. Although the interstate has an interchange a mile south of town, it killed local commerce. Except for a Walmart 15 miles away, you need to drive an hour or more to buy goods. While I consider it a blessing, it is likely difficult for our consumption-orientated society to accept. My great-niece probably has it all within walking distance.
Unobstructed by lights, my sky is a canvas of stars, meteorites and vast emptiness. She will visit a planetarium. I live among deer, wild hogs, turkeys and other creatures. She will look into a wire cage. The best part of my community are the citizens. Local residents know how to fix things. There is no need to call a repairman. They know each other and transactions are arranged with a handshake. Best of all, they share. A friend keeps me supplied with fresh vegetables. I hope Suzy can experience a red potato that is so fresh that you rinse the skin off with water. That’s right; no peeler is necessary.
Welcome to our planet, Suzy.

Bluebird Lessons

Over the past couple months a pair of bluebirds have roosted on my truck mirror. The ritual begins with the two sharing the mirror. Seeing his image in the glass, the male begins attacking the window. He is encouraged by the female who jumps between the mirror and the radio antenna. The result is bird chaos on the door, hood and mirror.

The performance exemplifies three things for me. How often do we waste our lives fighting ourselves rather than looking for a solution to the situation. If this is not bad enough, how ofter do relatives and friends enjoy our suffering and negative behavior. Where is the supporter who steps forward to point out the reality of our follies. Finally, when did we lose respect for property of others. Why has greed and envy become such a consuming purpose in life.

In the hope of directing my friends away from the vehicle, I have built four bluebird boxes and located them elsewhere on the property. If you want to learn more about bluebirds, the North American Bluebird Society has an excellent web-page (www.nabluebirdsociety.org). The plan for the chalets that I constructed are at www.realbirdhomes.com. This site sells boxes also.