While certainly not an original idea, after all Benjamin Franklin practiced it, each year my resolution is to work toward a virtuous life. For 2021, my project is humility. In preparing for the New Year, I acknowledge a list of steps necessary to be mindful of humility in my life.
- Expertise/knowledge is limited by finite insight and understanding
- Appreciate and respect others
- Listen first and, if necessary, speak in as few words as possible
- Withhold judgment
- Blaming is counter-productive
- Help and learn from each person encountered
- Uplift others in words and actions
- Always remember there is a possibility of being wrong
- Express gratitude in every situation
- Look for opportunities to serve others
- All solutions are on God’s schedule
- Compare things- not people
- Gossip is most often a form of comparing
- It is not who is right, but what is right
- Follow God’s example of total love and complete forgiveness
Humility is not thinking less of yourself, it is thinking of yourself less- C S Lewis